In the previous article we discussed the basic steps that affect self-esteem: – early (prenatal) – Children (under 13) – adolescence (up 'at the age of 18) – Early adulthood (age 25) – late adulthood (25 +) Now we can explore some of these steps in more detail a little effort to determine their impact on low self-esteem was esteem.There considerable research to show how the environment of its parent can leave his imprint on a child who strikes later in life. So 'Environmental considers home.

If a parent has a low self-esteem and surrounded by an atmosphere of negativity, there will be an impact on your child. Later in the life of her child who suffers from low self-esteem may think the fault is all their and seek remedies in this regard, when in fact the reason is much deeper and whether treatment should be very small different.By begin to be "self-aware," because there is an element of differentiation. Again, however, we are taught to follow the example and that the child should always post their thoughts on the world as less than that of adults.

Again, the child is very sensitive to the emotional states of mind and negative feedback. In fact, the spectrum of 'environment is now extended as this negativity is not only the family but can also come from classmates and reports. This can become a vicious circle. For example: a child is told from birth that "no one wants them because they never smile. At school, children can begin to involve any refusal by the fact that they do not smile. In fact, the child will even get to tell their friends: "I bet you do not love me because, plastic surgery facial, I do not smile, or because I have a terrible smile.

Classmates often say" yes "even if it is not true. And 'thus further reduced self esteem of the child and becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.Adolescence has his problems, because now you have the added complications of hormones and chemical reactions impact internal emotional state. During adolescence most people are fully aware, but now are seeking confirmation and affirmation of their perceived identity. However, if this perceived identity so far has been composed of negativity and low self-esteem, then someone will actually be seeking further confirmation of this.

Indeed, in the absence of any form of assistance or support that can effectively block anything, but the confirmation of their problems of low self-esteem. A young boy, I helped teens believe that their nose felt funny. This belief arose mainly because the boys 'mother' had always said since he was a child. At school, therefore, no mention of the features of this boy has a complex about his nose. This guy has become so severe that he never spoke with the girls for fear of rejection and constantly think about plastic surgery.

It took me six months of solid work to change perceptions about the building up to more than 15 years.Each categories listed above may also be broken down into their constituent values and impacts. Each of these values has a different effect on self-esteem. Some may be very small and others can be very deep. Only by understanding the value of each impact can begin to understand the "self" in low esteem and then to develop a cure.